-I suppose there are women who think it's flattering to be the object of constant references made to cunnilingus. I think it's as offensive and annoying as any other constant, overt sexual reference in an inappropriate context would be. It seems to me that the women who find it flattering think that oral sex is a favor and not a mutually pleasurable experience whenever it happens to women, that they think it's gross, and that's why women should be flattered to have people yell "Sexy fish" at them. Women who want to talk and hear people talk about cunnilingus all the time seem to me to be as desperate and sad as anyone who wants to talk and hear about sex all the time.
-Voyeurism is a crime. I don't understand why there are so many people who are acting as if it just doesn't matter either that what has happened to me is criminal or how I feel about it. It's truly a rapist attitude that is fueling that behavior.
Copyright L. Kochman, June 21, 2015 @ 11:16 a.m.
